$ eli5 --topic "why_we_dont_remember_before_age_4" // your brain was under construction BABY BRAIN ages 04 Still being built Very few connections grows up ADULT BRAIN age 4+ Fully connected! Can store real memories but wait... OLD MEMORIES? Can't access them! ? ? Files saved without a proper filing system = lost forever THE KEY INSIGHT The part of your brain that files memories (hippocampus) isn't ready until age 34. NO SAVE BUTTON no card Experiences happen... but nothing gets saved. Like taking photos with no memory card inside! NO WORDS YET baby: no words I went to the park today! older: words help! We store memories using words and stories. No words = no memory labels! BRAIN OVERWRITES baby paths new paths Growing up re-wires the brain. Old weak paths get replaced with stronger new ones. Bye bye, baby memories eli5.cc born age 1 age 23 age 4 memories start here

ELI5: why we don't remember anything from our life before the age of 4

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What is childhood amnesia?

Childhood amnesia is when you can't remember anything from before you were about 4 or 5 years old, even though lots of things happened to you back then [1][2]. It's like your brain didn't save those early memories to your hard drive.

Why does your brain forget early memories?

Your brain when you're a baby is still being built and doesn't work the same way as an older kid's brain [1]. Your brain needs to develop special parts that help you make and keep memories, and those parts aren't ready yet when you're very little [2].

What about those few memories you might think you have?

Sometimes you think you remember something from when you were really young, but it might actually be a memory of looking at photos or hearing stories about it, not a real memory from back then [2]. Your brain can trick you that way!

Will your memories from now stick around?

Once you get to be 4 or 5 years old, your brain's memory system works much better, so you'll start remembering things that happen to you [1][2]. That's why your memories from school and later are usually pretty clear.

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